Author: Shainne Hostalero

Inspired by the Lectures on the Psychology of Women by Joan C. Chrisler, Carla Golden and Patricia D. Rozee (Source)

Battered Woman: Why Don’t They Just Leave?

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Violence against women is a problem of international proportions, and nowhere is a woman in greater danger than in her own home. Tragedy of the violence extends beyond the physical and emotional injuries of woman. That with these aspects, children were also affected and also formed and showed some tendency of being battered. That is why children witnessing this situations in their own families has the tendency to be violent and portray what they saw, believing that these are the right things to do. According to some researches, boys who have witnessed their fathers beating their mothers are actually 24 times more likely to commit sexual assault than are boys with non violent fathers and 74% more likely to commit violent crimes in general. These individuals who witness their mother being battered are six times more likely to commit suicide and the girls are more likely to engage in teenage prostitution.

Inspite of all those violence and injuries that women are actually facing, the hanging question is, “Why does SHE stay?” and we begin to ask more contrary to the first one, “Why should a woman and her children have to leave in order to protect themselves and achieve peace?” Perhaps, you might say because of love, memories, concern for the children, foolishness and many other forms. Depending to what principle that they stand for. But on historical perspective,

“A dog, a wife and a cherry tree, the more ye beat them the better they be.”

Women should learn how to protect themselves and should know how to say stop when they had already enough of this violence. Battered women are considered strong but they just don’t have enough guts to leave and speak up for what they want, not because they are scared or afraid but because they are brave to face all of this trials for their family (most of the time). For those who already leave home for a new life is the perfect decision. Each woman don’t deserve an animal kind treatment that in fact, animal should be treated right also.

Nowadays, women are not anymore considered as inferior than men. They have attained the level of balanced and in reality speaking, women today are dominating. They could freely speak up for themselves, stand up for their rights, fight for the improvement and reach the point that they are being knowledgeable than men.

Today, there are no place for women inferiority anymore, those days are over. Women are brave, can fight and lead.
Yes Women, we can! Say NO to violence, women should be respected. Women should be loved.

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Why do some people have a high self-esteem and others low? Maybe because of a good interaction with other people or the place they lived in and many other circumstances involved. As we discussed about the Self-Esteem Theory in class, it also reflects that having low self-esteem is not just about being shy or discreet but also being insecure and telling false stories about other people, just a sign that they are not capable of accepting their own self, that’s why they are making false information just to have something to talk about, maybe they can gain some acceptance from others, turning other people down to attain self-fulfillment.

When I was in high school, I’ve been bullied by my classmates, specifically one group of girls whom I used to be friends just before hand. They will always tell false stories about me and thinking that I’m a drama queen at class because I’ve been too quiet for sometime due to family related problems and sometimes I just don’t feel like talking to anyone, going through a self-discovery and self personality building at early times. There was a time when our teacher assigned a group work and I was actually grouped with them, as we do the work I could feel that they don’t really like me, they don’t want to be with me or even talk to me and they would just laugh behind my back. They would tell others that I’m so irritating, they don’t want to be friends with me and I’m not a really good friend at all, the false stories even reached other sections and passed from one person to another with additional false information. I felt like I was not deserving to have friends, so I did stuff alone, engaged myself into music, some art, films and Batman related things. If Batman can live alone and do things in a tactful way, why can’t I? I winded it up just like what he did. Less talk, less fight. Even when I verbalize something or not, people will still say something not so nice about me, they are fond of making judgments without really even knowing what’s going through with the person they are whining up. But that’s one part of reality; we couldn’t force everyone to show relish on us, considering that we have different choices and preferences.

My teacher even talked to me about it, telling me that what I’m doing like being silent about the issue, not having fights with those girls and doing my work well were just the right things to do. I learned with those devastating words that I should remain discreet and not to care at all, because I can’t please everybody anyway. As long as I know that I’m not stepping into someone and I’m not turning anyone down, I’m fine with it. Apparently, I had low self confidence because of that experience, but just so I thought that being humble or showing great humility is indeed the having the highest self-esteem. Helping myself to build up personality efficiency that can help me to believe that I can overcome obstacles or challenges and I can achieve my goals in life.

Hello gamers and techie inviduals! Nintendo introduced their new baby to the market, actually this has been released a long time ago (March 2011), I hope it’s not yet late for me to blog this and give away some information.

Nintendo 3DS project a stereoscopic three dimensional effects without any requirement of additional accessories and a breakthrough in portable entertainment. Nintendo 3DS main competitor is Sony’s Playstation Portable, in line with the series of Nintendo DS versions like the first released DS and Nintendo DSi, Nintendo 3DS indeed is the new generation DS that is highly techie and fascinating because of its new features and actually costs $249.99 (Manufacturer’s suggested retail price. Actual price may vary.)

Real 3D graphics. No special glasses needed.

Nintendo 3DS (photo from Google Images)A

Nintendo 3DS features:

3D Screen
The Nintendo 3DS system opens up a whole new world of eye-popping gameplay possibilities. The stereoscopic 3D display of the upper screen gives objects within the game world of feeling of space and depth that extends far into black of the screen. It becomes easier to see the position of characters and obstacles in the world, making many game experiences even more intuitive for all types of players.

3D Depth Slider
A built-in 3D Depth Slider allows you to immediately adjust the intensity of the 3D settings on the Nintendo 3DS system to your liking. The 3D effect can also be turned down completely-and all Nintendo 3DS games and applications can be played in 2D, and look better than any Nintendo handheld before it.

Nintendo 3DS contains a lot of best features and to know and explore more about it, visit Nintendo 3DS Hardware Features

Main Source: www.nintendo.com